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Swingers Guidelines

Tips for using a swingers site

There are a lot of things that you can’t avoid as a swingers site. You will need to make sure that you understand what these things are and that you are able to be prepared for them. A lot of people will get into swinging without thinking about the little things and the other side of it. While swinging can be a lot of fun and sexy there are a few other things to keep in mind.


When you start chatting/meeting on a swinging website you cannot avoid jealousy. Even an experienced swinger will still sometimes get a feeling of jealousy whenever they see somebody that they care about with somebody else. You will find that jealousy is a natural feeling that nobody is able to get around. No matter how confident you are in yourself and your relationships you will still get this from time to time.


Like losing your virginity, once it’s given, it’s gone. Swinging is a choice that has unknown ramifications and unforeseen consequences and benefits. This kind of activity has no certain result: You can either destroy your relationship or enhance it. Think of swinging as the extreme where there’s no in-between. You can decimate and obliterate your happy relationship or you can find the lifestyle you’ve been searching for. The choice, as always, is with you and your love. If you choose to go with it make sure you use a good swinging website!

Telling Your Partner

Tell/share everything with your partner. If you are with another person you will need to make sure that you tell them that you are a swinger. Whether you are new to swinging or new to the relationship you have to make sure that you are honest with the person that you are with. If you don’t keep your partner in the loop, then you are cheating on them.

Describe Carefully the Type of People You Hope to Meet

Think about what you are looking for in a potential partner. What qualities are very important in the people you meet, and what can you compromise with? Think about what physical characteristics are true deal-breakers for you. Would you turn down meeting people who are everything you both desired, because they are smokers? Think about where you could make a compromise and concentrate on qualities that truly are important to you. If you are looking for well groomed, height to weight proportionate people just say so and keep it to that. Make sure to include an age range of people you would like to meet. If you do not want single guys contacting you then just mention it nicely one time. Just don’t add “NO SINGLE GUYS!!!!!!!!” in ten different places in your profile. Also, especially ladies, if you are bi-sexual then you may want to let it be known. The majority or the women in the lifestyle seem to be bi-sexual, so this is not uncommon. This way you will have a greater chance of meeting compatible people, which you could both really get along with. 

Choosing Good Photos for Your Profile

On Eliteswingers.co.uk, you have an online photo album where you can show your photographs. Remember, there are also private photos, so that the only people who will see your private photographs are those with whom you have allowed to access them.

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I'm sure you have heard the expression "Content is king" a good free swinging website should have excellent content, it should....

  • Introduce you to fellow swingers
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Swinging, or "the lifestyle," is defined as social sex between consenting adults — usually heterosexual couples who swap with others. But before you pack up your condoms and head to the nearest swingers' club, there are a few things you need to know first.To start, although most swingers' clubs allow women in without a partner, that is not typically the case for men. And if there is a "single men allowed" night, you can bet you're a ss that you'll be surrounded by a hell of a lot more men than women. So if you're in a relationship with an "up for anything" kind of girl, read on. If not, then better luck next time, dude.

Dimming the Lights

Okay, we’re moving on to the action part of becoming a swinger. One of the central points of joining the club is to fill up the gauge for sexual satiety and if you cannot achieve that after so many “encounters,” it’s basically pointless. So, in order to bring your drive to a whole new level, practice one of the finest techniques in seducing people, which happens to be the application of dim lighting or the more traditional way by candle lighting with all other lights off. For one, it creates a gloomy type of delineation for different skin tones that will actually make both parties look more daring and really into the whole scenario. And for starters, it’d be best that you practice with your partner ASAP!

Swinging rules

The main rule is to stay protected. If anyone asks to bareback you - just say no!

Never force yourself into swapping your partner for someone else - you have to be comfortable with the encounters you're having.

Everyone has the right to accept or turn down sexual practices. It's completely fine to refuse someone, as long as you're tactful about it. Politeness is important amongst swingers... and don't just jump on the first couple you see!

As for the finer details, dress sexy if you like, and if you want to bring accessories, you're free to do so! But don't compromise on hygiene, take somesex toy cleansing wipes with you.


What is the Lifestyle?

Well first of all, the phrase "the lifestyle" is one of those euphemisms like "passed away" or "powder my nose" that everyone uses instead of telling it like it is. "The Lifestyle" means swinging - couples getting together with other couples to enjoy sex with each other`s partners. The lifestyle also includes singles (ladies or men) who get together with couples to participate in sexual activities.

Leave the personal hangups at home.

No matter your age, ethnicity, or physical appearance, it's likely there's someone in the swinging community that will enjoy your company just the way you are. "It doesn't matter if you're black, white, or Asian, fit or overweight, big wiener or little wiener. It's more about being confident and comfortable with yourself," Jason says.



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Eliteswingers.co.uk is a free swingers site for the swingers community. Browse profiles, photos, events and meets, groups, forums, chat in the chat room & meet swingers near you on this site.


Eliteswingers.co.uk is the only swinging website to offer a Facebook like instant message chat bar. It also offers instant video chat.


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Swingers Guidelines

Tips for using a swingers site

When you join a swinging website it can really bring out your true sexuality. Make sure that you understand the feelings that you feel and that you allow yourself to explore them. Feel comfortable in your body and know what and who turns you on so that you can have as much fun as possible whenever you are swinging.

Risks for the couple

Swinging sometimes appears like adultery in disguise. Some couples say they practise swinging to break up their day-to-day routine. But it also allows them to prevent the risks of infidelity by "fighting fire with fire."

One of the partners can therefore feel hurt as a result of witnessing their partner's extra-marital sex live, even if their presence reassures them and gives them the impression that there are no secrets within their relationship.

What's more, swinging can make a person doubt their sexual "abilities" because of comparisons with other people e.g. "he's better at sex than I am", "he's got a bigger penis than me" for men, or "she's got nicer breasts" for women.

Seeing your partner get more aroused with one or more other people can also be disturbing for the couple and it can fuel jealousy.

Know why you want to try it

When any decision can have such potentially damaging possibilities, it is very wise to question what your motivations are. People get into swinging for a variety of reasons.  Maybe you’re tired of having the same, predictable sex life that comes with a long-term, monogamous relationship.

Bi Curious

This swingers site is a perfect place to meet like minded people, you will find out that they are bi curious whenever they begin to chat/swing. Allow yourself to explore your feelings whenever you are with somebody of the same sex. You may find that you will have a lot more fun whenever you experiment with everybody that you could potentially swing with.


On a swingers website, it is a good idea for you to at least try to see if you like swinging with people of the same sex as you if you are typically straight. If you are typically homosexual, then you should also experiment with people of the opposite sex. You will find that this is a great way for you to see who and what turns you on the most.


Explore your body as well as the bodies of others. Whenever you do this you will be able to get a newfound respect for the human body. This way, it won’t end up being something that is about being gay or straight it will just be about pleasing another person while you yourself get pleased. Just make sure that the other person that you are exploring is okay with it.

Choosing a Good Screen Name

Choosing a Good Screen Name on this swingers site is actually the most important part of your search for finding others on the Internet, and unfortunately it is the main thing that we can’t do for you. However, we can provide you with tips and advice to make your online swinging profile successful in attracting other members who you could be the most compatible with you. The information you use in your profile is what gives your potential new friends that important first impression of you. Needless to say, it is worth spending the extra effort and time in creating the best swinger profile you can.

Choosing a Good Screen Name

Create an easy to remember screen name. If you meet a couple at a swingers club or event you want your name to be remembered. Put some time into finding a good one. 


SexyFloridaCouple - would be an easy to remember name. Even SexyFloridaCouple911 is easy to remember. However, SexyFLcpl911 is not, so try to get a good screen name. Remember it's all about gaining fast and easy access to the site!

Your Descriptions and Swinging Interests

On a free swinging website, Firstly, make sure you have fun writing your profile, because it will come across in your words. Really take the time to think about the effect that your words will have on the other members. How would you feel if you read this profile? Make sure that you come over as a fun and happy couple. Try to keep it light and to the point, without too many unnecessary details. Try to be confident, but not come off as arrogant. Just make sure to be honest and sincere in your profile about yourselves and what you are looking for in other members. You have made a big decision on joining a swingers site, take your time and make sure you are 100% sure about taking things forward!

How does swinging work?

Nowadays, there are a bunch of nightclubs in which couples who enjoy the lifestyle head to on the week-ends.Although this location provides a great "getting to know you" environment, it is not, where the swingers swing. There are different premises for the sex (someone's home, a camping ground, etc.).Although certain elite clubs specify that you have to be invited by someone from the club to get in, most swingers' associations don't discriminate, and will welcome you with open legs, so don't fret. Most important point is TO HAVE FUN on the swinging website set up for swingers.

Do Not Get Attached

One of the biggest restrictions in a swinger’s life is to become attached to anyone they encounter. First time swingers may have a problem dealing with this certain rule, but if you’re really up for the guilty pleasure, then you should remove yourself from any emotional equation. And how exactly do you not get attached? We are all susceptible to the whole falling in love thing and it happens even with the person you expect the least to be. And that only happens when you spend a lot of time with that person. So, my point is: After the session, move on to another and never look back. Or maybe look back, but after you have done swinging with a couple others already, because it gets easier to trail away from emotional attachments when you constantly mix everything in a bottle where you don’t get to pick the exact same candy all the time.

How do swinging couples meet each other?

Couples usually meet either by attending social events sponsored by lifestyle clubs or by contacting each other directly through personal ads placed in lifestyle magazines or on the internet.

Final word

There are no rules about how often you should practise swinging, it depends on how you and your partner feel. It could be a one-off just to try it, an annual tradition to spice things up, or all the time, if you're not satisfied having sex with just one partner.

Agree on boundaries and NEVER EVER break them!


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